May 17, 2025 – Staunton: Friendship, History, and Finding Rhythm with CLL
The day was a perfect blend of cool and sunshine when my friend Vianne picked me up at 9:30 a.m. for a drive to Staunton, Virginia, where we planned to meet Jenny and her daughter Ada. The plan: an early lunch and an afternoon at the Frontier Culture Museum. The drive—just over an hour—was manageable even as I was recovering from a bout of hives (more in my CLL Journey) and processing the emotions of leaving a job I’d held for ten years. Physically I was okay—CLL aches and pains show up when they want. Emotionally, I was cooked.
The Drive & Arrival
Vianne and I chatted about work on the way in. We both packed water. I wore my favorite sun hat, comfortable layers, and good walking shoes—small things that make a big difference. We parked near the farmers market, texted Jenny, and soon the four of us were together. After a quick look around, we headed toward the blocked-off streets where most of the restaurants are.
Lunch & A Little Magic
We snagged a table outside at Remedy Burger. I had a delicious burger and truffle fries—but the real joy was the company. I’ve known Jenny and Vianne for years, and I’ve known Ada since she was born. Being with them felt like getting some of my rhythm back.
After lunch we wandered and stumbled upon the Medieval Fantasies Company Gyfte Shoppe. I “adopted” two dragon eggs (one for me, one for Ada) and found a medium-sized blue dragon that now sits on my desk. The small dragons come in eggs and all dragons come with an adoption certificate Small treasures, happy memories.
Frontier Culture Museum
Then it was time for the Frontier Culture Museum. It requires a fair bit of walking, but it’s manageable. For those who need it, there are golf carts available to shuttle visitors.
💡 Pro Tip: Wear comfortable shoes—the paths are a mix of paved and gravel. If you’re low on energy or wrangling little ones, consider the golf cart option.
Tips for Visiting
- Comfortable shoes: You’ll be on varied surfaces.
- Consider a golf cart: Helpful for mobility challenges or young kids.
- Bring a stroller or wagon: Families appreciate the assist.
- Allow time: Plan 3–4 hours to explore the exhibits on foot.
Reflections Along the Way
We walked most of the museum, stopping to rest on benches here and there. Ada marveled at butterflies—a small reminder to notice the everyday wonders. The exhibits tracing Virginia’s history were engaging and hands-on. I wouldn’t recommend the museum for very young kids due to the walking, but for older kids and adults it’s a gem. There are even nice spots for a picnic lunch.
I handled the day fairly well—hydrated, paced myself, and kept an eye out for bathrooms. By the time we got back to my house around 6 p.m., I was tired but happy.
Closing Thought
Travel doesn’t have to mean faraway destinations or elaborate plans. Sometimes the best days are close to home with good friends, good food, and a few surprises along the way. Even with CLL, meaningful adventures are still possible.